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"squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak..."

The sound of a dog's squeaky toy, coming closer, down the sidewalk, as we eat lunch outside. What should come up the way but a family--mom and dad and just-walking baby--the baby's shoes are making the squeak noise. Someone is manufacturing baby shoes with squeakers in them. There were a few people around us, and we all exchanged unbelieving looks. One guy said "that's the weirdest thing I've ever seen!" Well, no, but it's pretty weird.

Cut to a few hours later, in the airport, waiting for the announcement to board our plane: "squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak..." Another just-walking baby, with squeakers in its shoes. Someone is manufacturing baby shoes with squeakers in them, and at least two people have bought them. I can only imagine that the point of these shoes is that you always know where the baby is--you know, rather than watching them. I know, I'm not a "kid person," and I'll never have children so I'll never understand, but isn't this whole idea really obnoxious? The message I'm getting from it is "My child's safety is more important than your comfort."

They are coming to your school, your daycare center, your laundromat, grocery store (think of it--dozens of pairs of shoes--"squeak squeak squeak squeak squeak") dentist's office, your city street!

What do you think?

Date: 2006-09-15 03:01 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] perspicuity.livejournal.com
interesting response actually.

squeaking shoes does not to ME seem to be a safety feature in any way. they will not alert a car driver (cyclist, skater, walker - especially with music in their ears) to the child's presence i bet. not not loud enough. as for keeping track of the kid... they still crawl, easily could get out of range if you were depending on the sound or weren't listening for a moment.

i respect a parent's right to raise their kids as they see fit, that's a given. same for a dogs. i don't have to LIKE the behavior of the child/dog though, especialy if affects others. smoochie poochie kins might be the most wonderful doggie ever for the owner, but perhaps not to the lady who can't sleep because of the yapping. i can't blame the dog, i can blame the owner. training is important.

so, like smoking, and other antics in public, these do not necessarily trump good manners, public health/safety and disturbing the peace - and more. a parent might be used to their child's say, high pitched wailing, in distress or not for 20 minutes, but even to another parent i've found, that sound is awful. one can be tolerant for a while, but not forever.

does not [livejournal.com profile] urbpan or any blogger have every right to comment and opine as they want in their space? this is not a public sidewalk where he's telling a parent they're kid's racket is obnoxious and please cut it out. it's his personal space so to speak. as such, imho, telling someone in their own journal, that their opinion is inappropriate is ... out of place. i don't speak for him or others of course. what do you think?

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