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It occurs to me, that while this is my personal journal, I do give it as the web address for The Urban Pantheist, and people who find it through that route (if any, in fact, do) may wonder what some of my entries have to do with my zine.

In particular, I'm thinking of the highly personal yet now totally public issue of my vasectomy. What does that have to do with "Loving Nature while Living in the City?" I know some of you see an obvious connection, but many people don't. I think it's not a bad idea to spell it out a bit.


We humans are wonderful, unique animals. Through the power of ingenuity and intelligence we have spread to almost every habitable place on the planet. We have created the ability to communicate with one another, no matter what the physical distance between any two of us. We have brought countless diseases under control, and have the ability (but not yet the will) to prevent every member of our species from dying of hunger.

Unfortunately, we have also caused a great deal of stress on most of the rest of the species we share this place with. Every human on Earth can trace his or her ancestry to a single African woman who lived about 50 or 60 thousand years ago. Her children now number 6 billion. Her children hunted the mammoth to extinction, ate the last dodo's egg and introduced the mosquito to Hawaii. Her children did these things without knowing that they were wrong, that there are consequences to their actions. Now we have the ability to communicate with one another, from any two places on the planet; we have the ability to make choices using our imagination, our forethought, and our memory. We have the ability to learn from history.

Procreation is the reason that organisms exist. Why do mosquitoes suck blood? To obtain the protein they need to lay eggs and make more mosquitoes. Why does mold grow on your bread? To produce the spores that will drift on air currents and hopefully grow some more mold. Why do humans exist? To produce baby humans, right?

Sure, if you ignore that we are unique among organisms in having the ability to think. Humans exist, some believe, because the Earth needed a self-conscious being (or organ) to protect itself. We are alone among creatures in being able to make decisions based on something other than simple reactions, instinct or desire to feel good. We are alone in having a sense of past, present and future. And we are alone in having the ability to pass on ideas to others of our species--even to those who are not even born yet.

My parents, who were environmentally aware people 35 years ago, when I was born, made a conscious decision to have two children, and no more. They reasoned that they were replacing themselves. My problem with this logic is this: My parents still exist, my brother and I still exist, and my brother's children still exist. Where there were two humans, there are now six. In 35 years, the population of our family tripled. In 1969, when I was born, there were more than three billion people (source: http://www.futuresedge.org/World_Population_Issues/world_population_2.html). Now there's twice that, so my parents, well meaning though they were, were a little off.

We all know what a tremendous drain on the Earth's resources humans are. We all know (or should) that North Americans disproportionately drain those resources. There are many ways that we can lessen our impact. We can consume less of everything, especially animal and petroleum products, for example. We can support politicians and policies that support sustainable agriculture and industrial practices (hint: not those supported by corporations). We can choose develop our cities, not creating sprawling suburbs that absorb and divide wildlife habitat. And we can try to slow down population growth by not directly contributing to it.

Date: 2004-08-10 10:14 am (UTC)

blahdee de dah.

Date: 2004-08-10 10:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] messy-wreck.livejournal.com
"We are alone among creatures in being able to make decisions based on something other than simple reactions, instinct or desire to feel good."

I think the majority of the world population makes decisions based mostly on simple reactions and the desire to feel good. That is why the world is in the state it is.

We like other animals do things souly to survive. Unlike animals that have limited exsitences (where they have they're natural habits to do to survive) we as free thinking broad minds have all different sorts of views on what it is to truly survive.

I see what your saying though...we should live our lives in a way that is fair to the rest of the inhabitants of this planet. Which I am for.

Its just really important to me that inteligent thinking folks like yourself and your dad raise children...who knows the more we populate maybe we will win someday. It's cool you guys have Rebecca.

The way I see it who knows..we're here...the majority of us are fucking up things. I will live my life as honest and true to the earth as I can.

I dunno what I'm saying. You just got me thinking about things and that's good. I was just sitting here loking at mad porn for like 2 hours...so now I'm going to get off my ass go for a bike ride and ponder our exsistence.

Thanks.

Date: 2004-08-10 10:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] messy-wreck.livejournal.com
and Jesus!

I'm glad things went well, Hope you peenie isn't hurting too bad.

Date: 2004-08-10 12:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] richmackin.livejournal.com
I was discussing gender roles with my friend Shyla years ago. I noted that there was some logic to the idea of a woman who just had being the primary caregiver, what that she could make milk and all that, it just so happens that we live in a society where men going "out" and "working" is considered more value. Another view would be that motherhood is honored and amazing, and the now useless man might as well go gather stuff or make money or something. She then brought up one of those simple points we sometimes never realize- just because all babies are born from females doesn't mean all females have babies.Or should. Or want to.

The idea is not necessarily that we should stop making new people, but we should spend more energy on the ones we already have around.Paul Kivel discusses this in "Boys Will be Men" when he speaks about "raising our sons" to mean the society raising it's (in this case) male children-not I raise my kids only and you raise your kids only.

I also love you, but in less ways that cottonmanifesto does.
From: (Anonymous)
Amen to that, Rich! (In a non-religous sort of way, of course!)

I use this philosophy with anyone who questions my refusal to procreate. I'm not one of those people who doesn't want to have kids because I don't like kids. I'm one of those people who doesn't want to have kids because I love kids too much to make more of them. There are already so many kids out there who don't have enough (love, food, safety, etc.). I'd rather spend my energies, time, and money making the world a better place for the ones already born. Heck, I personally would feel guilty if I chose to bring more kids into the world. If I had to raise a kid of my own, I'd have no time whatsoever for reaching out to others (kids and adults). I think my time is better spent teaching 20 kids about bugs, magnets, history, art, and telling stories than it would be changing diapers, cooking meals, or worrying about my teenager's dates.

I'm not knocking anyone who thoughtfully chooses to have a kid, especially if they work hard to be good, loving parents, but I think that there are too many people who think that they should have kids when they don't really want to. I wish there was more social support for people who wish to be childfree. I think it would eliminate a lot of suffering in the world. (In addition to cheap and easy birth control for anyone who wanted it.)

So, thanks Jef for the thoughtful words about your very private experience, and glad to hear it went well! (Hopefully, your experience will help ease David's mind about the proceedure...)

-Turil
who, having just read an article about yoga philosophy, has decided that she loves everyone!

Date: 2004-08-11 04:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] urbpan.livejournal.com
By the way, the eyewitness tale of the surgery can be read at [livejournal.com profile] child_free_life thanks to Alexis.

Date: 2004-08-12 04:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rwblackbird.livejournal.com
Perhaps it is due to selfishness or ignorance, or maybe low intelligence. But I would not be able to overcome the, what seems to be, natural urge to procreate. I want dozens of kids. Short ones and tall ones, fat ones and skinny ones, girl ones and boy ones, gay ones and straight ones, African ones and Asian ones and maybe a few of my own.

Date: 2004-08-13 01:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] urbpan.livejournal.com
Hey, If there's any kind of people we could use more of, it's Canadians.

Date: 2013-08-12 06:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gigglingwizard.livejournal.com
"...we are unique among organisms in having the ability to think.

Do you still believe this? With dolphins giving each other names, with Coco using sign language to express her sorrow over the death of her pet cat, with some primate (I think it was a gorilla or orangutan) stockpiling rocks to throw at zoo visitors later in the day, with chimps demonstrating culture, with 30 years of experiments demonstrating the consciousness of some other species?

Date: 2013-08-12 07:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] urbpan.livejournal.com
We still are uniquely able to consider the consequences of our actions, to be able to think in the long term.

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